dating again after a four year hiatus – jan 21, 2010

I just went on a trip to Vegas with eight people. Four couples. I was the only single one in the group so in a penthouse with four bedrooms, I slept on a couch.

This made me realize that I’ve been single for almost four years now. That’s a long time, especially in gay years where a six month relationship is basically considered long term. It’s not that I’m jaded or anything. Things with my ex ended on a good note, I even visited him overseas last month. It ended because I wanted to better myself and, him being eight years older than I am, he understood that. So no, that doesn’t mean I slept around for four years. In fact, I think I’ve become a virgin again.

I’ve never really had good luck on the Internet, especially lately, so this will probably be one of the last few times I try this. While a relationship would be ideal, I’m not looking to jump right into one. I just want to meet another interesting, masculine guy around my age and let things develop on its own. I’m 25 years old, Asian American, 5’9″, 160lbs., and a college graduate. I’m not gorgeous but not hideous. In fact, I’ll balls up and post a pic just to filter out the superficial responses – so please send your pic in your first response because I don’t know how interested I’ll be in a guy who is too chickenshit to email me his pic. And hey, just because I posted a pic on craigslist, doesn’t mean I broadcast my sexuality. I’m very masculine and am very private about my personal life, however, I do live by the idea that fortune favors the brave so I know that without taking these risks, you gain nothing.

(Apparently craigslist distorts pics to a point beyond recognition. This pic should at least give you an idea of what I look like but if you’re too hung up on looks and aren’t interested, then neither am I. Thanks.)

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