Since I’ve been single for almost four years now, I figured that I should put myself out there and ended up going to a gay club tonight.
As I was walking through the crowd, the back of my head was suddenly felt up by some guy. And it wasn’t just someone’s hand brushing against the back of my head, he really worked his fingers into my hair for a good 10-15 seconds. When I turned around, I saw that he was smiling at me. Even though I was disgusted, I wasn’t about to pick a fight over it in a crowded club (plus, I was too surprised to do anything) so I just gave him a WTF look. The funny thing is, the guy would’ve been pretty hot if it weren’t for his perverted gay arrogance. It’s people like him that give credibility to the stereotypes.
Personally, I do my part to be respected by society on the same level as any straight male would be. And frankly, I do a good job of it. My friends, even my gay/lesbian friends, don’t think of me as being gay. I’m not in the closet, I don’t hide the fact that I’m gay, but I definitely don’t flaunt it either and use it to make other people uncomfortable. So what happened to the other normal gay guys? I thought that we were making progress?
I ideally want to meet another normal, masculine guy around my age (preferably 23-30). I’m a 25 year old, Asian American, 5’9″, 160lbs., college graduate. And yes, I’m the one who posted the ad about my trip in Vegas. I appreciated all the responses and apologize to those I didn’t respond to. A lot of the responses didn’t seem to read the whole ad and left out vital information or didn’t send a face pic. Other responses just didn’t seem like a good match. However, if you feel like I’ve misinterpreted your response, please send me another, I’d be glad to hear from you again.
Anyway, I hope this ad doesn’t offend anyone. While I also hope to meet someone interesting, I brought up this topic to make people think of what they contribute to society. So thanks for reading.
